We couldn’t work on fixing things between him and I, because he would go to his mom. It got to the point that she would come to me to discuss his concerns so she could coach him on what to answer. In the meantime I was told and convinced that my expectations were too high. I wanted too much. Things change and I need to deal with the change and accept reality and what is now. And be realistic on his wants, wishes, desires. My wants and needs were secondary to his.
Fast forward a few years, our marriage wasn’t great, but it wasn’t hateful. I was turning 30. He mentioned throwing me a big birthday party for my 30th, but had decided against it in favor of buying 2 new game systems and games for himself. I can’t even tell you what he got me that year. We did end up going out to dinner, for my birthday, just the two of us. He decided to inform me something that he thought was particularly funny.
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