Like in the middle of the night, ill have to comfort him back to sleep I will not kill my coworkers I will not ok maybe just one shirt. And it’s not all the time and he has good weeks, but it has scarred him. It’s no secret that children with intact family homes do better statistically in a number of different ways. And I know situations are different for everyone and I know, successful kids come out of divorced families, but honestly, it’s been a horror to witness my son lose some of the sparkles in his eyes. He’s more fearful, he gets down on himself, and I could go on and on. But she’s happier, so there’s that.