Who are they? I like Jules Winnfield you will know my name is the lord when I lay my vengeance upon you shirt. It should be between you and your partner and both inputs should be considered! They’ll only ask the mother, she has to be committed to it being y’all’s, not just hers. Then she says: “we want to go with…” instead of: “I want.” We did all the choices together When our kid was born. We actually left the wall color as it was, neutral, and added all sorts of cute stick-on animations…that we could change as she grew. Only actually bought a crib and used a dresser and table we had at home. Decorating for the short period that they are infant/toddlers was a waste of money, in our opinion.