At first I was angry and and sad crying and asking myself wtf did I do wrong. Boom I looked in the mirror and knew I hadn’t done anything wrong and that he and I were done. Its been a week now and it hurts still yes but I will overcome and learn to smile again. He on the other hand lost so much more. Loosen your grip a little bit now or she WILL start sneaking out. I say this as a thirty six year old grown woman whose parents insisted on controlling nearly every aspect of my life well into adulthood. You are going to ruin your relationship with your daughter if you don’t let her do some of the things her peers are doing.
My now ex had been cheating on me for years, and my family knew about it but never told me. Stayed quiet for years and years until I was the last one to find out about it. Obviously it ended in divorce, I would have loved to end it sooner if I had known but for some reason they didn’t want to ““ruin my marriage” (my ex already ruined it by cheating so I would have been happy if they had told me so I COULD have ended it sooner. I’m still a little upset with them for not telling me until it was too late.)
however, Things don’t always go so smoothly with these kinds of deals. My best friend found out that her sister in laws husband was cheating on her with her best friend (sister in laws best friend) because this friend told my friend one night at the bar and showed her snap chat evidence of them being together. My best friend didn’t know if she should tell her sister in law or not, I told her that when I was in that situation I wanted to know way sooner than anyone told me so my friend told her sister in law who then confronted her husband and best friend who then told her that my best friend was making it all up and she was crazy.
So now, her and her sister in law, who used to be super close, have stopped talking all together and the sister in law treats her like dog shit. I hope that one day she catches her cheating husband and best friend together because it makes me mad that she didn’t even look into the fact that they could be cheating. She just took their words for it. The best way to reduce or eliminate this problem from your trading is to develop strong good habits early on in your trading career. Once bad habits are set in and firmly in your trading, it takes much more work and effort to get rid of them.
Never trust recommendation services to immediately buy a stock. If you use a recommendation service, you still must evaluate the stock for YOUR goals, expectations, risk tolerance, time frame for the hold duration, etc. Emotions have no place in stock trading. Do not trade for the glory or fame. Do not trade to impress your spouse, parents, siblings or friends. Trade stocks for income, for financial security, etc. To be a truly successful trader you really need to enjoy the job —the work of trading just as in other occupations. If you hate the work, then go find another job.
My wife “Darcy” and her best friend both got married about the same time, and both were young. Darcy was 19 and “Livvy” was 18. However, Darcy and I stayed married for decades, while Livvy quickly discovered she’d married a physically and mentally abusive druggie and bailed out after a couple of months. However, it was during those couple of months that Livvy’s parents retired, sold their house, and started touring the country in a camper. Livvy literally couldn’t go back home. So she asked Darcy if she could move in with us for a while. We said yes.