Unfortunately yes! I was married also. We were both 23. He was doing some work on our house and he would come in for coffee. We talked and became closer and closer. He listened to me and I liked that. Next thing you know, he kissed me and I felt so guilty! But his beautiful baby blue eyes would look deep into my soul and it drove me crazy! Soon we were taking it further and further. It went on for quite a while. Then his wife must have suspected something because she started coming over all the time. Also somehow my husband got suspicious and called this guy and asked him what was up.
He told my husband he loved me and wanted to be with me. My husband asked him to leave me alone so we could work on our marriage. He left me alone. His wife left him. He lost his house and moved away. I never heard from him again. My husband never forgot about it. He brought it up all the time. Next thing you know, he was cheating on me many times. I felt I deserved it! I had wrecked so many lives! To this day I wish I could go back and erase that awful mistake I made! I never even loved the other guy and certainly had no intentions of leaving my husband for him. I got my punishment! I lost the love of my life for a meaningless cheap thrill!