Only my nephew I never met reached me couple of times via Facebook. Today I am 4 month divorced my son is 17 and my son ( child #4 born in my 45 years) is going to be 12 soon. All kids are healthy and doing good. Just to mention that my mom was very good and loved kindergarten teacher her whole life in my home village. She taught me lots of life lessons how to handle kids up to 6 years old. I was the same teacher myself in my early 20s and used her advises and wisdoms daily with other people’s children and later with mine. Her aproach always worked. To this day and probably never I will know why she did not see me as a loving parent and mother who use her teachings to raise her grandchildren. And I tell you: it always worked!
We got married & he still behaved the same with me. He’s nice to me in front our family. But alone in our bedroom, he doesn’t even acknowledge my existence. I kept thinking may be he’s still shy. I tried tiny gestures like cooking his favourite dishes, he ate them but never said anything. I tried holding his hand but he brushed it away. I went from phases of thinking I’m not attractive enough for him, I did something to upset him, he doesn’t like sex, he is impotent, and what not. After a lot of time I realized that my husband is gay. One day I gathered the courage to ask him if he is. He smiled at me & said ‘Now you know. So stop trying now.’