Perhaps for a while, you could even do those chores together so she can feel more like teamwork at the start? I know it’s hard to not be angry with her, but from my experiences being angry just leads to further rebellion and no listening whatsoever. I hope you’re okay and I hope you manage to get through to her. I’m in a similar position and I’m sure we will survive! (Clearly, I have no actual advice, just know you’re not alone). Swearing is the worst!