Son in law threatened me twice because he’s angry that my husband and I receive one of the two main legal parking spots as mandated by rental law here. Once when he was angry because I was using the boulevard to park after the city had redone their part of the driveway a day sooner than he’d like (he wanted extra time to let the city’s work dry at my expense). City workers had already moved the yellow tape blocking the boulevard but he thought he could force me to wait longer to use my spot. (I was not offered anywhere else to park even though parking is in my lease) When first the city and then the landlord’s family re-did their driveways, respectively ) Specifically, he called my husband at 7am and threatened us that he would “get a friend that has a tow and “drag my ass all around (my city)”. He is pretty well-connected and his family has money.
On Christmas day we came by and she outlined her neighbours good traits and compared her to me at the dinnertable. Her brother cried out her name in shock and horror. I was stunned. And my now ex was told I was at my wits end with both him and her at the end of that day. It was a few months after we lost a child in SIDS, I had gotten pregnant again too quickly and was diagnosed with chronic pelvic girdle pain since I had had problems since my first child (I was 6 weeks pregnant when it set in)and never recovered after I delivered. And she compared me to a healthy woman and how she managed her home – as far as she could tell. I was grieving and happy all at once and dreading the birth in October. Which makes me wonder if I was pregnant then or if I am not remembering the conceived date as well as I thought. Anyway – she was horrible to me then and I could never forget or forgive her for that horrible Christmas day.
Now, let me take this moment to go back and explain some things. This couple is crazy. And I don’t mean just crazy in a relationship…no, no, no, I mean they are both crazy as individuals, certifiably so. But they’re honestly really cool people who just argue all the time, and sometimes try to kill each other. When it’s not the latter, it’s actually pretty funny…. So on this day, I’d been over there all day, and they’re drinking beer all day, as they usually do, and they’d been arguing all day, as they usually do, and I’m sitting in between them in their small camper, just watching them go back and forth and keeping my eye on the clock because it’s nearing 4 p.m., which means if anything crazy is going to happen with them, it’s getting within an hour of that time. I’d already peeped out that all of their episodes had taken place after 5 p.m. I made it a point not to ever stay past 4….
I was chilling at a friend couple’s house one day, I call them that because both she and he are my friends equally, and they both were getting rowdy with their drunkeness. They began to argue over the music, he wanted the volume pumped and she wanted it down so she could hear the t.v., when she snatched the phone and messed the speaker up to the point he had to fix it when he’d been able to convince her to give him the phone back, and he plugged it back up….
Now let me interject again, because this is a known fact. She indeed did kill her ex-husband. She went to prison and served her time, and this is something that has not been hided. In fact, he and she were even friends back when the murder took place. She did in fact let him know a few hours before the murder that if she went home and her husband put his hands on her again, she in fact was going to kill him. When he tells the story, he says when he woke up the next morning, (he sleeps with the t.v. on), the first thing he heard on the news was that she was arrested for murder….
When I go outside there is a huge dent in our only vehicle rear passenger side along with a substance that looks like mechanical oil and yellow paint. I can’t confirm that he was involved in this but it is highly highly suspicious. I call the police who come out to look at it. Son in law comes out to speak to the cop with a letter that was left by our garbage man’s manager saying it was his guy’s fault. It seems to me that they were waiting for the police to inevitably arrive and they wanted to make sure their name was cleared by not just giving it to us directly before the police arrived.