I don’t recall the topic of confidentiality coming up even once in my subbing assignments. My mom spent over twenty years in public schools as a teacher, a school psychologist, and an administrator prior to beginning her present job as a university professor. She told me that she made it a point with each class — especially with very young students — to tell them that they should feel free to share anything she said to them or did with them with their parents. Even with regard to Christmas presents the students made in class for their parents, she told the children that they might spoil the surprise by telling their parents what the gifts were before the parents had a chance to unwrap the presents.
I wasn’t expecting what came next, it was a normal night out and he got a bit too tipsy to drive home so I invited him to sleep over at my place. We continue drinking, it was close to 12:00 and I told him I had some magic mushrooms and we could take some together, he was excited as he didn’t tried them before. He was 56, I was 22 and we ingested the shrooms and listened to music, talked and laugh so much. Then 4am came and he was getting scared as the high wasn’t getting anywhere. He panicked and wanted to call the ambulance. I knew what happens and I tried to comfort him, to hug him and to tell him that it will pass sooner or later.
Then he said he never tried anything with another man ever and he would like it. I said to him that I never tried but wasn’t curious, he then kissed me. It felt nice so I gave in and we kept kissing and touching and I got a bit aroused but not like with a girl. It was something nice. Then he started to take off my shirt and then kissed my body, it felt nice and then my pants and underwear came of and he was stroking me. He asked if that’s alright and I told him yes. I started undressing him and kissing him and he was so hard. I took him in my mouth, it felt weird and warm and I kept doing it until he started cumming in my mouth, it had a different taste than mine but I swallowed it.
He then proceeded to return the favour and it felt so nice. We went to bed and woke up at 10:00 am and didn’t talked anything about what happened, I could see he felt a bit uncomfortable and shy. He left. We’re still good friends but nothing ever happened since then but I hope it will as I know I’m heterosexual and he is too. I’m also good friends with his wife who doesn’t know a thing still. I’m 25 now and he’s 58 and that was the craziest experience with a teacher. I’ve always had something for older women and now for him. I would never repeat the experience with anyone else than him.
I said yes while holding the towel in front of my dick so she couldn’t see. And it was that moment that I though “what the heck..” and slowly dropped my towel and revealed my dick. She was standing there watching and as soon as she saw the whole thing, she went “OMG! That’s huuuge!” And all my ex could say “told you so!” While she was still showering… Nothing happend after that, we got dressed and went out. She did grab my dick once or twice while dancing and spread the rumour to all of her friends about how big she thought I was
That still it was up to them whether or not they wanted to share the information with their parents. She didn’t want to plant any seed in a child’s mind (or in a parent’s mind when the child later incidentally repeated her words to a parent) that she would ever say or do something involving a child about which she wasn’t fully comfortable having the parent know. Telling a student not to disclose something that was said or done at school, particularly by a teacher, is asking for trouble. In addition to the professionalism and ethics involved, The Golden Rule applies here. A teacher must treat other parents’ children as the teacher would want his or her own child or children to be treated. I wouldn’t want any teacher or, for that matter, anyone telling my child that there was anything my child could not share with me.