I fought with his family, his family fought with me, so I got angry at my husbad. It was a mess. My dad was there, not saying a word. Let me tell you he is very smart man. after couple of hours he told me to go out with my husband for a while and sort it out. I met my husband on hallway, I could see his face full of regret and asked him if he would come with me for a short ride. He agreed and after half hour i was crying and we were hugging each other and he was telling me I will never let you go.
The fact that the text is partly in German excludes almost totally that the text was written in France or by French people. French was fashionable in intellectual circles throughout Europe, whereas the use of German was almost totally restricted to the German-speaking part of Europe (today’s Germany, parts of the Austrian empire and Switzerland).
It would take very long to prepare the wood, it’s also very labour-intensive, the resulting structure will (as the original) be heavy and a fire hazard. Other cathedrals have received lightweight steel roof structures without anyone complaining so this is probably the way to go, especially if it should be completed within the announced five years.
The possibility that the fire was the result of arson cannot be dismissed. Barely an hour after the flames began to rise above Notre Dame — at a time when no explanation could be provided by anyone — the French authorities rushed to say that the fire was an “accident” and that “arson has been ruled out.” The remarks sounded like all the official statements made by the French government after attacks in France during the last decade.
In 1905, the French parliament passed a law decreeing that all the properties of the Catholic Church in France were confiscated. Churches and cathedrals became the property of the State. Since then, successive governments have spent little money to maintain them. Those churches that have not been vandalized are in poor condition, and most cathedrals are in poor condition, too. Even before the devastating fire, the Archdiocese of Paris stated that “it can’t afford all the repairs” that Notre Dame needed, “estimated at $185 million.”
And that was it. We came back. He talked with his family and convinced them. We didnt got married at that time thoug. We waited for one more year to see how things goes. It wasn’t easy to forget what happened. I was afraid that his family would do something again to separate us and honestly I don’t want that mess in my life. We agreed to stay together but I stayed in guest room for couple of days after his parents left.