I was upstairs and watched him do it from an upstairs window and my neighbors on either side had also witnessed it my homeowners insurance was going to cover it but because it happened at 430pm on a Saturday of a 3 day weekend it was Tuesday before they could get it replaced. The fine was issued at 9am Tuesday morning the window was fixed before noon. I was harassed because I was remodeling the townhouse on the inside (I made sure nothing I was doing needed HOA approval according to their handbook)and according to the nosy neighbor across the courtyard I must be a prostitute to pay for it.
Yes, and I have thought about it many times since. Similar to many women in their twenties, I didn’t really understand much about relationships. I had had a few chemistry-driven relationships that ended very badly, so when I met my husband I was attracted to him because it seemed like it was quieter, more practical and almost destined to be. Our parents had the same names. We grew up in nearby towns. We were raised in the same religion and had (I thought) similar values and interests. I believed my soon to be husband was a kind man.
When we were coming up with our guest list and talking about who to invite, he wanted to invite everyone from his workplace except one person. I thought that was strange, as I was very inclusive and he appeared to be. I asked him about it and he talked about how “weird” this co-worker was and just was very disparaging of him. But he didn’t give any concrete examples of bad behaviors, etc. I had never met him, and of course I was busy with plans, so I just let it go. But I did think about the fact that it seemed kind of hurtful to leave just one person out—unless they were dangerous or something. On our wedding day his entire office was there, except this one co-worker, and I remember that it bothered me.
i eventually found out my husband (now ex) was not a caring, compassionate man. He just put on a mask. He turned out to be a liar, cheater and an embezzler. It took me 25 years to figure it out. He was pretty good at deception and I was so invested in our family that I was willing to be deceived. But I am now sure that somehow this co-worker had found out something about my ex, so that my ex felt exposed in front of him. I knew there was something wrong when he didn’t invite this man and couldn’t offer any real reason. And that was confirmed when I met him.
Democratic politicians know that the risk from opening schools and businesses isn’t that great, but want to keep those places closed until after the election to help Democrats win. I give this one a 55% chance of being true, at least to some extent. If this happened in, say, the summer of 2012, when Obama was running for reelection, and the tanking economy was hurting his poll numbers, I’d bet a lot more Democratic governors and pundits would be eager to open everything back up.
I had more male visitors than she thought was proper. I have 4 older brothers and my boyfriend at the time was in the military and would sometimes bring friends home with him on leave. The HOA president went as far as to call the police and tell them that I was running a “house of ill repute” out of my home. Imagine the officers surprise when they came to the door to find myself my 2 sisters, 3 brothers my boyfriend and 3 or 4 of his Marine friends having dinner and playing Trivial Pursuit.